Resolved Question: Am i overreacting or is this truly unfair?
My father was married to my mother for 10 years and left my mother for his current wife. He was never there for me after he married this new woman because she wanted him to have no contact with his “past”. She gets mad when i call my father even today. Now her and my father have three children together and their oldest is about to graduate and my father is going to pay for this child to go to college. I had to get pill grants and live off of roman noodles and work a minimium wage job to get through college. His other daughter is going to get her college paid for her. Am i overreacting or is t is unfair treatment? She has had “our” father her whole life i had to do with out because of her mother not wanting me in my fathers life.I have tried to sit down with him and tell him how i feel but he just says your a grown woman now i can’t do anything about the past except try to be there more in the future. He still is not being a father to me even after we had this talk. I have four kids and my kids are not allowed to see their grandfather because this woman has told my father all i want is money. All i want is my father and for him to be a grandfather to my kids. Stop ignoring the fact that he has four kids and not just three.